Grace Pernecky, LLMSW, EMDR and anxiety therapist in Michigan, smiling near a window with greenery behind her

Grace Pernecky, LLMSW

EMDR, Anxiety & Chronic Illness Therapist

Pronouns:

She/ Her / Hers

Education:

University of Michigan Social Work (Ann Arbor)

Patients:

Adults, College Students, LGTBQ+

In Network:

Aetna | Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO | Out of Network | Priority Health | Private Pay

You are feeling disconnected, isolated, and unsure who to trust or how to feel about your life anymore. Sometimes the world outside doesn’t feel real — like you’re watching it through a pane of glass, filtered through fear and anxiety. This may have always been true for you, or it may have started after an experience that shifted everything, and you haven’t been able to find your way back since. In the past, you could handle discomfort on your own. But now that isn’t working. The people around you don’t quite get it, and trust in yourself and others feels unreliable.

I approach therapy from a client-centered, anti-oppressive, and holistic lens using approaches like EMDR, IFS, and mindfulness-based therapy. We will address the emotional, mental, spiritual, physical, and social dimensions of your life story. My approach is one of curiosity, not fixing. I strongly believe that you are not a problem to be solved.

I have a particular interest in working with clients navigating chronic pain and illness, where the physical and emotional are deeply intertwined. I also work frequently with anxiety, especially when it shows up in the body, keeps you stuck in your head, or makes the world feel smaller than it used to.

This is a space to wade into the unpredictable waters of your own healing, at your own pace, on your own path. The goal is to help you own and author your life narrative. And because there is no one-size-fits-all approach, expect to get curious together as we work toward tangible solutions to what brought you here.

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Get to know your therapist

Who is your ideal client?

I work with a wide variety of clients, but many of them struggle with anxiety and everything that comes along with it, whether due to past trauma or other factors. Often, clients come in with a state of overwhelm. Some of them have forgotten why or when they started feeling anxious in the first place. Sometimes, the anxiety can feel more situational, and we can work together on developing a wide variety of coping skills that are contextual to the situation you are in, but I like to go further with anxiety in clients; when we have a reached a point where the anxiety is not so overwhelming within the body, we can learn that it can be okay, and even valuable, to sit in that discomfort. To learn not just how to “get rid” of anxiety, but to treat it as a friend that sometimes needs a little more time, space, and compassion to get behind the changes and uncertainty that might crop up in your life. I also love working with folx experiencing chronic health issues, as I have personal and professional experience that have fueled my passion to help these clients not just survive but thrive in their lives. Clients with these issues often feel as though everything in their lives is dependent on and centered around their physical pain. They also often develop mistrust of health professionals, and even themselves, as they face sometimes severe and often inexplicable pain and are not getting the solutions they want and need. This can be an incredibly difficult space to occupy, and I feel honored to help clients live through and become more empowered in their lives when all they feel on a day-to-day basis is victimized, exhausted, and frustrated. There is a way through this discomfort, and in sessions, we will learn together what that might look like.

What's something you wish people knew about therapy or the therapy process?

I wish that people knew that therapy can and should be anything that you want it to be! A place for reflection and processing, a place to explore future possibilities and directions, or a place to work toward tangible goals using a variety of modalities and intervention styles. I think that, especially given how therapy is portrayed in the media, some folx can have a particular, set idea of what therapy looks like. It does not have to be that way.

Why do you like being a therapist?

Being a therapist, I feel as though I learn just as much, if not more, than my clients do! Every individual contains a whole unique world. It is also an absolute privilege to be given the opportunity to be granted access to that precious, one of a kind world. I am an avid learner, and as mentioned above, I highly value curiosity and creativity and collaboration – 3 “C’s” that make me feel confident that being a therapist is right for me!

Besides being a therapist, what do you enjoy in your spare time?

I have so many things I love doing! Making plenty of time to connect with and be present with the natural world is really important to me, which can look like hiking, rock climbing or bouldering, biking, swimming, gardening, or foraging. Music is also very important to me, and I love playing guitar, violin, and singing, whether by myself or with friends. I’ve also always been an avid reader and writer, and love writing and reading poetry especially. Spending time with loved ones, whether it’s my family (including pets), friends, or partner, is also very important to me.

What is your favorite book, podcast or mental health resource?

One of my favorite resources to work through with clients is The Artist’s Way, for creative folx (musicians, painters, actors, etc.) looking to reclaim their sense of artistry as part of their identity. I also have recently started reading Dan Siegel’s book Brainstorm, which is a wonderful lens to look through and better understand adolescence, for both children and adults alike!