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Is There Therapy for Empaths?

Have you ever wondered if there is a specific therapy for empaths? Do all empaths need therapy? Empaths can perceive and absorb the emotions, energies, and sensations of others. Being empathetic is a common human trait but being an empath is different. Empaths often experience the emotions of others as if they were their own. It's important to note that being an empath is not a diagnosis. It is a description of a characteristic or trait. In this blog, we will explore in depth the question, “Is there therapy for empaths?” 


Understanding Empaths: Traits and Challenges

Empaths can intuitively understand and share the emotions of others. This includes humans, animals, and beyond. At their core, empaths embody profound empathy. This extends beyond sympathy. Some wonder if empaths are “born or made.” It is a body-based connection with the emotional experiences of those around them. Common traits include heightened sensitivity and intense emotional responses. They also have an innate capacity for compassion and understanding. However, with these extraordinary gifts can come significant challenges. Empaths frequently find themselves struggling with emotional overwhelm. They can absorb the feelings of others like a sponge, often without even realizing it. Empaths may struggle with boundaries because they have a hard time differentiating between their emotions and others. This leaves them feeling drained, anxious, and disconnected from themselves.

Therapy Among Empaths

Therapy can be a transformative tool for empaths. Therapy can provide a safe and supportive space to explore the unique gifts of being an empath. Not all empaths may feel the need for therapy. It can be beneficial for those struggling with intense emotions or boundaries. Being an empath is not a diagnosis. However, characteristics of being an empath may lead to mental health diagnoses. For example, emotional absorption can result in anxiety or depression. Through therapy, empaths can learn coping strategies, boundary-setting techniques, and emotional regulation skills. Seeking professional support is not a sign of weakness! It is a proactive step towards nurturing one's mental and emotional well-being.

Holistic Therapy for Empaths

There isn't one specific therapy designed specifically for empaths! Empaths can benefit greatly from many different types of therapy. The most effective therapy for empaths depends on individual needs, preferences, and goals.

Below are therapy approaches that may be helpful for empaths:

Somatic Therapy/Somatic Experiencing (SE) :

  • Somatic therapy focuses on the mind-body connection. It recognizes that trauma and emotions live in the body and the mind. This approach is great for empaths who notice a lot of physical sensations in their bodies. Somatic therapy provides techniques to release stored tension in the body and process emotions.

  • Somatic therapy allows empaths to become more attuned to sensations. As a result, they develop greater control over their emotional responses.

  • It can also help empaths establish stronger boundaries. It creates a deeper understanding of their physical and energetic boundaries. This enables them to distinguish between their own emotions and those of others.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT):

  • DBT is a structured therapy approach developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan. DBT integrates elements of cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and mindfulness practices. It can help with regulating emotions and decreasing impulsivity.

  • DBT teaches empaths practical skills for emotion regulation and distress tolerance. There are also skills for interpersonal effectiveness and mindfulness. These skills empower empaths to navigate challenging situations. It also helps people manage their emotions more effectively. As a result, the risk of emotional overwhelm and burnout is reduced.

  • Additionally, DBT helps empaths develop assertiveness and boundary-setting skills. They can communicate their needs and maintain healthier relationships.

Mindfulness-Based Techniques:

  • There are many different mindfulness-based approaches. Two common approaches are Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) and Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT). These techniques offer empaths tools for staying in the present moment. It also helps develop non-judgmental acceptance of their thoughts and emotions.

  • By practicing mindfulness, empaths can develop greater clarity and perspective on their experiences. This allows them to observe their emotions without becoming overwhelmed by them.

  • Mindfulness techniques help empaths strengthen their ability to set and maintain boundaries. They learn to discern between their own emotions and those of others.


    Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR):

  • EMDR is a therapy designed to address trauma and distressing memories. EMDR can help process and resolve past traumas that lead to overwhelm.

  • EMDR involves bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements or tapping). It facilitates the reprocessing of traumatic memories. This helps empaths integrate these experiences into their past to decrease triggers.

  • EMDR can also help empaths develop greater resilience and emotional regulation. This enables them to navigate challenges with more strength and stability.


Finding the Right Therapist

  • Finding the right therapist is as important as the treatment approach. Don't only focus on finding a therapist who has the right qualifications. A therapist must understand and respect their unique empathic traits. Look for a therapist who is empathetic, compassionate, and non-judgmental towards your experiences. It's essential that you feel understood and validated by your therapist. This lays the foundation for a trusting therapeutic relationship. Trust your instincts! Don't hesitate to ask potential therapists about their approach to working with empaths. Remember, finding the right therapist is a personal process. It's okay to take your time to explore your options and choose someone who resonates with you on a deep level. Your therapist should be your ally in your healing journey.


Counseling for Empaths in Detroit & Ann Arbor

Are you an empath ready to start your therapy journey? At Embodied Wellness, PLLC, our empath therapists in Michigan are trained in holistic treatments such as EMDR therapy, somatic therapy, online DBT, and mindfulness-based CBT. We are here to support you every step of the way.

  1. Schedule a free therapy consultation through our website.

  2. Get scheduled with an empath therapist

  3. Learn how to set boundaries and regulate your emotions!


Online Therapy Services in Detroit & Throughout Michigan

At Embodied Wellness, PLLC we offer many services for both adults and teens through online therapy in Michigan. We specialize in OCD therapy, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, trauma therapy, and PTSD treatment. Start your mental health journey today!


About the Author: 

Sarah Rollins, LMSW, SEP is the founder and one of the therapists at Embodied Wellness, PLLC, a group therapy practice providing online therapy in Michigan. Embodied Wellness specializes in trauma, depression, and anxiety treatment for adolescents and anxiety. She is passionate about expanding awareness of somatic therapy as a way to treat trauma. She incorporates other holistic treatments into her practice including EMDR, IFS, and attachment therapy.